Homosexuality: A Survey

If you have some randomness to share that you can't post elsewhere, this is the place to do it.

Is homosexuality acceptable for you?

Yes
69
71%
No
20
21%
Undecided
8
8%
 
Total votes: 97
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Re: Homosexuality: A Survey

Postby IdentityUnknown » December 26th, 2011, 10:11 pm

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IdentityUnknown wrote:*shrugs* I don't think that homosexuals should feel bad for being who they are. I'm just saying that it's more than likely that at one point in their life, they've wondered, "Why can't I just be straight? Why does everyone pick on me for being the way I am? Why can't I change?" That's the one point I wanted to point out. It's natural and it applies to a lot of different things, whether it be hair color, skin color, ethnicity, wealth, etc. It's not easy for everyone to accept who they are right off the bat and not be ashamed of it. I know that I struggle with it.
Like I said, it's not you I take issue with, just the line of thought. :-X

And I want to comment on it further, but my brain just isn't letting me explain myself properly, so I might come back to it later.
I didn't take it that way. :-X

Anyways, this is a survey and I don't think it was meant to be a discussion topic, so we probably should exit out of it before arguments start happening.

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Re: Homosexuality: A Survey

Postby Tawi » December 26th, 2011, 10:18 pm

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Tawi wrote:While it its true that the church has a pedophilia problem, it's been obviously blown out of proportion by mass media (who are very anti-religion).
I would just like to point out that the mass media isn't necessarily anti-religion so much as they're anti-whatever-it's-cool-to-be-against-today.

Well of course they aren't entirely anti-religion. But regardless, modern media generally carries an anti-theistic secular mood with it. If it isn't as obvious already.

There are not contradictions in the bible but there are what appear to be contradictions. It may be easy for atheists to come up with a list of things that confuse them but that's beside the point. One has to have knowledge of the bible, take the text as a whole and most importantly, deal with the translation by itself. Believe me, it isn't as easy as flipping through your printed version of the bible.
I grew up in church, so I've heard this argument many times. In fact, it is as easy as flipping through the Bible. Apparently Christians (both Catholic and Protestant), pick and choose which ideals they want to follow (see Tanner's previous post, my previous post, Jd-'s previous post and Kor's previous post for references there), so pretty much sounds like they're just flipping around going "Yep, I think I'll follow this one." or "Nope, I don't like that one, therefore it's not applicable."


I'm not going to change your mind and you're not going to change mine. But I'm telling you, you're wrong and while I can't explain the matter as best as apologists can, if you are truly interested you can send me a pm and I'd be happy to link to this good Christian forum I know off. And no, if you're thinking that you've seen all that, Christian arguments are illogical, blah blah blah. Well it's not a Christian forum it's a Catholic Christian Forum. See in this forum, atheists actually engage into some pretty interesting debates, I enjoy reading them. I guess its because Catholicism and Atheism have more common grounds than Atheism does with Protestantism.

Catholicism has been around for quite some time and would not have survived to this day if they didn't change when they needed to.

Well "changed' is a pretty general word. So in a sense, yeah, we did change, and Vatican II is pretty much known for that. They changed the mass from Latin to the local language in order for people to understand what was actually going on. Of course, this is just one example, but they made A LOT of changes to the point that some people despised them for it. They modernized the church, however, they have not changed any doctrine of the Church. The Catholic Church, doctrine-wise, remains unchanged throughout 2000 years. It's something we together with our Orthodox brothers and sisters brag about.

The rest of it I don't even want to touch on because I'll end up starting a fight that doesn't need to be started.

Alright, same here XD.
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Re: Homosexuality: A Survey

Postby Akonyl » December 26th, 2011, 10:20 pm

you blew up your quote. D:
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Re: Homosexuality: A Survey

Postby ConansSideWalk » December 26th, 2011, 10:21 pm

-Remembers Anon's gun thread- History repeats! :D I have to go back there. As much as I would love to debate in this thread this shouldn't have been a problem in the first place. To have feelings of dislike or hate towards a group of people, gender, sex, age or w/e is wrong. I feel if you oppose homosexuality even if you keep it in your head you're wrong. There is no good reason to do so. To use religious texts is like using quotes from harry potter as evidence. Dumbledore was homosexual! lol
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Re: Homosexuality: A Survey

Postby dilbertschalter » December 26th, 2011, 10:22 pm

Jd- wrote:
Chekhov MacGuffin wrote:The followers of any religion which uses a holy text needs to be aware that the text was written for the needs and common ideas of an old people and that the codes of conduct prescribed need to be reinterpreted in light of the fact that the people the text is being applied to now are very different than the ones it was originally written for.


I understand the sentiment of your post, but let us also say this: Allowing free license to "reinterpret" by saying a holy doctrine "needs to be reinterpreted" is just saying "make it fit what we consider acceptable in a modern context" to believers, which should be considered very dangerous and magical thinking at the very least. I can see no reason to "reinterpret" the Bible. We know why it says what it does: it came from that age. We've grown out of much of it because it was so very wrong, in so many ways. There's no logical reason to consider or reconsider a single word from such a relic as we move forward in any other context than to learn from the mistakes of the past, instead of encouraging people to attempt to adapt them to a new age. That's the religious equivalent of Hollywood adapting a Victorian novel and setting it in present day as far as I'm concerned.


I agree with this, but I do think you have to be very careful about context. Your quote about Jesus, for example, isn't really someone taking a stand on the issue of slavery- it's part of broad encouragement of obedience to authority. That Jesus was like 99% of people who lived during his time doesn't make following certain moral prescriptions he made a bad thing in and of itself. It's like viewing Jeffferson, Madison, Washingston, etc; as incredibly evil because they supported slavery. I don't deny that such support was bad (and led to bad things down in the future), but it was a product of their times and it also doesn't simply negate the worthwhile things they had to say. I understand that your actual point is about how quotes like these show that rigidly adhering to the exact words of a document that is a couple thousand years old is unwise (very true!), but I think the context still is relevant.

What is a very bad thing, is the idea of eternal salvation through adherence to revealed religion. What Jesus said about slavery is a lot less problematic to me than the idea that if you do not follow him and his teachings you will burn in hell for all eternity and if you do follow him you will go to heaven and receive its benefits. I think this is one of the most pernicious and evil ideas ever conceived in human history; to say the least it certainly has given people of different religions (though mostly Christians and Muslims) license to kill others with virtual impunity.
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Re: Homosexuality: A Survey

Postby PhoenixTears » December 26th, 2011, 10:25 pm

@Tawi:
"You're wrong, but I can't explain why" - I think that says everything that needs to be said right there. :P

Here's the thing: I'm not religious. I will never again be religious. I think religion is general is more like brainwashing than teaching (feel free to take offense to that if you must; I'm pretty offended by some of the things they teach, might as well make them offended by things I say). 99.9999% of religious people these days do pick and choose which scripture they want to follow, regardless of actual religion or denomination within the religion.

Maybe I won't change your mind (and you definitely won't change mine), but telling me I'm wrong but not being able to explain why does nothing to endear me to your cause (not that anything you say could, to be perfectly honest; I will never have a problem with homosexuality). But just take that as a general statement. Nobody is going to listen to you if you can't explain to them why you think they're wrong.
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Re: Homosexuality: A Survey

Postby Tawi » December 26th, 2011, 10:29 pm

ConansSideWalk wrote:-Remembers Anon's gun thread- History repeats! :D I have to go back there. As much as I would love to debate in this thread this shouldn't be a problem in the first place. To have feelings of dislike or hate towards a group of people, gender, sex, age or w/e is wrong. I feel if you oppose this issue you're wrong.

That's true. While I may seem like a homophobic monster to all of you. I'm not, it's legalizing gay marriage that I'm against. Homosexuals can join the army, they can do this and that, sure. But, when one tries to break the definition of traditional marriage, that's when things go wrong for me. ;)
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Re: Homosexuality: A Survey

Postby PhoenixTears » December 26th, 2011, 10:32 pm

Why? How does a person marrying who they love harm the sanctity of marriage?

So it's better that two people who don't actually love each other and are just getting married for fun and will divorce in a few weeks get married than people who might actually spend their entire lives together?

Edit to add: "The bible says X" is not a valid argument in this case. The state should not be discriminating against people because of a religion that not everyone adheres to.

The church has a right to not approve the marriage, sure. I'll give them that, because whatever, it's their thing. The state/country should not be doing that.
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Re: Homosexuality: A Survey

Postby Tawi » December 26th, 2011, 10:32 pm

PhoenixTears wrote:@Tawi:
"You're wrong, but I can't explain why" - I think that says everything that needs to be said right there. :P

Okay, lets leave it at that. =))

Here's the thing: I'm not religious. I will never again be religious. I think religion is general is more like brainwashing than teaching (feel free to take offense to that if you must; I'm pretty offended by some of the things they teach, might as well make them offended by things I say). 99.9999% of religious people these days do pick and choose which scripture they want to follow, regardless of actual religion or denomination within the religion.

Well I know a lot of peeps who feel the same way so no offense taken.

Maybe I won't change your mind (and you definitely won't change mine), but telling me I'm wrong but not being able to explain why does nothing to endear me to your cause (not that anything you say could, to be perfectly honest; I will never have a problem with homosexuality). But just take that as a general statement. Nobody is going to listen to you if you can't explain to them why you think they're wrong.

I did reply in a lame way. For most of my life, I was a believer but I didn't really care too much about my faith. Something just creeped up to me last summer and I started joining all these religious stuff. I'm still new at apologetics and frustration caught up to me since I couldn't explain that part as clearly as the people in this other forum could. Defense mechanism  :P
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Re: Homosexuality: A Survey

Postby BK201 » December 26th, 2011, 10:36 pm

Whoa whoa...

I think this thread should be closed. We're getting off-topic... And the catholic and bible thing'ies kinda offEnd me (I'm a catholic after all...)... D: D:

thanks for the defense, Tawi... =D
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Re: Homosexuality: A Survey

Postby ConansSideWalk » December 26th, 2011, 10:38 pm

I think we are on topic I mean its because of religion we have many human issues today this being one of them (I can say this because I'm of a Christian denomination lol Christianity has a horrible track record: fighting other religions in the name of our own, brain washing indigenous people if they didn't convert kill them, church helping the Nazi's just to name a few) -born catholic that's it :P- I don't want to wade too deep into the waters that is religion because my subjective views aren't for everyone.
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Re: Homosexuality: A Survey

Postby Tawi » December 26th, 2011, 10:38 pm

BK201 wrote:Whoa whoa...

I think this thread should be closed. We're getting off-topic... And the catholic and bible thing'ies kinda offEnd me (I'm a catholic after all...)... D: D:

thanks for the defense, Tawi... =D

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Re: Homosexuality: A Survey

Postby dilbertschalter » December 26th, 2011, 10:40 pm

Tawi wrote:
ConansSideWalk wrote:-Remembers Anon's gun thread- History repeats! :D I have to go back there. As much as I would love to debate in this thread this shouldn't be a problem in the first place. To have feelings of dislike or hate towards a group of people, gender, sex, age or w/e is wrong. I feel if you oppose this issue you're wrong.

That's true. While I may seem like a homophobic monster to all of you. I'm not, it's legalizing gay marriage that I'm against. Homosexuals can join the army, they can do this and that, sure. But, when one tries to break the definition traditional marriage, that's when things go wrong for me. ;)


That something goes against "tradition" isn't a good enough argument to oppose it. Over the past several hundred years, truly massive increases in the quality of life have occurred throughout the world because people have rejected tradition. Traditional economic systems have been replaced market and mixed economies (there are flaws to both, but the increase in wealth has been truly immense). Traditional social values, in particular the subjection of women as part of a patriachal hierarchy have come under sustained (though they continue to influence us). Traditional political systems have been replaced by a democratic ethic that values the participation of all (again, things aren't perfect, but there has been a truly massive improvement). These improvements have taken place because people have looked at "traditional" values and systems and realized that they can do better by changing things.
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Re: Homosexuality: A Survey

Postby BK201 » December 26th, 2011, 10:43 pm

It kinda sound on-topic. But the main topic is about homosexuality, nOt religioN.

@Tawi: i think you already said your part, could we just leave this be for nOw? Because whatever we say, they'll never gonna change their minds. And, it's their opinioNs and beliefs after all, so we really have nO say against it... =D
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Re: Homosexuality: A Survey

Postby Jd- » December 26th, 2011, 10:53 pm

Tawi wrote:Hey Jd-
Here's a Catholic response to your post - http://jimmyakin.typepad.com/defensor_f ... gs_of.html.
However, Scott Hahn's book, "A father who keeps his promises", is credited for explaining this issue the best in the Catholic community.

There are a lot of atheistic arguments that can stump protestant Christians, be it about creationism or what-not. Catholics however, are a very different case. Now this is the part where I get a bit cocky, but this is an issue I really want to land-on here. I've been getting the idea that skeptics sweep Catholicism and Protestantism under one umbrella. While we are both Christians, there is a big difference between us. Now of course, this is the
Catholic view on things, if another Protestant Christian would want to speak up against this part, go ahead.


I don't aim to be mean, but... I can't believe I wasted my time reading that trite. If you want to retort my post, you better do it yourself, because that link was simply an exercise in circular logic that was more disturbing in its agenda to avoid reality than it was in its very laughable and failed attempt to enlighten. You have to understand that saying something does not make it true. Indulging in such extensive circular logic does not change the fact that it is circular logic.

As for those condescending remarks toward other Christians: Catholics are more stubborn than Protestants--not more wise or more informed. From my experience, they, more so than any other, tend to indulge in mass delusions and refuse to acknowledge any other worldview and, when challenged, tend to use misdirection to avoid considering any sort of actual facts or evidence. Catholics, for example, continue to respect and worship a Pope that deliberately and systematically covers up the rape of young children and threatens anyone wanting to come forward with full excommunication. That's a holy man if I've ever seen one (no sarcasm, actually). And thanks to his stance on contraception, there will be more death on his hands by the time he dies than any mass murderer in history, and the body count will continue to rise long after he's dead. The Catholic Church could use its influence for good for once if they would stop living in the Dark Ages.

If the link you provided is an meant to serve as an example of how Catholics are superior to Protestants in debate... I can only submit this instance as evidence of my theory that Catholics tend to be far more convinced of their own eminence than any other religious group I've come across.

If you want a debate, respond to every bit of my former post in detail, point by point, with no outside links. Quotes from links are fine, but linking to outside articles that retain only a cursory bearing on the subject at hand is not. I will not respond to any further post of yours, including one replying to what I've said above in this post, until my original post is addressed because it feels as if you are completely avoiding the issue throughout this topic. You aren't actually responding to anything and instead are just making excuses from start to finish. Actively avoiding every criticism and only "directly" responding to what you feel is something you can defend without relying on specifics makes your argument weaker, not stronger. I don't have time to run in circles with you--I leave the circular logic to the apologists, because they've made an art form out of avoiding reality.

PhoenixTears wrote:Maybe I won't change your mind (and you definitely won't change mine), but telling me I'm wrong but not being able to explain why does nothing to endear me to your cause (not that anything you say could, to be perfectly honest; I will never have a problem with homosexuality). But just take that as a general statement. Nobody is going to listen to you if you can't explain to them why you think they're wrong.


The problem with such believers, Tears, is that they know they know they can't convince anyone else because what they are saying is worth nothing to anyone that isn't already taken in by the act. Instead, when they get into these debates, they spend the entire time trying to continue to reinforce their own convictions to essentially convince themselves, not someone else. It's sad, but it's true, and I think if people read this topic from start to finish, they'll see exactly what I mean.

Let's let Carl Sagan sum it up rather succintly:

"You can’t convince a believer of anything, for their belief is not based on evidence—it’s based on a deep-seated need to believe."

BK201 wrote:I think this thread should be closed. We're getting off-topic... And the catholic and bible thing'ies kinda offEnd me (I'm a catholic after all...)... D: D:


I don't think that is going to happen, because it's exactly the stigma toward discussing issues like this that leads to them taking so long to meet change. There's nothing offensive about homosexuality, and if people weren't saying the Bible was justified in outlawing it, the Bible would not come up. Once the Bible is no longer considered on this subject (as I hope will be reality some day), you won't have to worry anymore.

dilbertschalter wrote:I agree with this, but I do think you have to be very careful about context. Your quote about Jesus, for example, isn't really someone taking a stand on the issue of slavery- it's part of broad encouragement of obedience to authority. That Jesus was like 99% of people who lived during his time doesn't make following certain moral prescriptions he made a bad thing in and of itself. It's like viewing Jeffferson, Madison, Washingston, etc; as incredibly evil because they supported slavery. I don't deny that such support was bad (and led to bad things down in the future), but it was a product of their times and it also doesn't simply negate the worthwhile things they had to say. I understand that your actual point is about how quotes like these show that rigidly adhering to the exact words of a document that is a couple thousand years old is unwise (very true!), but I think the context still is relevant.


The founding fathers example really is excellent, but to that I would add that none of them were meant to be divine and are not considered as such. Jesus is meant to be the lord and savior that died for our sins--he was meant to be divine according to the Bible, not just a man. I do think it is important to be mindful of the context as well, but I also do not want the context to become an excuse for the faithful to fall back on when cornered (I think you know what I mean).
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