ConansSideWalk wrote:Bacon wrong country. xD Football and Hotdogs/Hamburgers and a bad beer like Budlight or Coors light!

Jd- wrote:Mohorovicic wrote:I'm personally against. It's not any moral belief, nor is the reason based on the Bible. It's just that something about homosexuality just gives me a bad feeling.
I'm personally against deep-sea diving. It's not any moral belief, nor is the reason based on the United States Aquatic Diving Regulations Guideline. It's just that something about deep-sea diving just gives me a bad feeling.
(...But I would never tell anyone else not to deep-sea dive just because I don't like it.)Mohorovicic wrote:I really honestly don't know. It's just that something about homosexuality just isn't right. And that's the best answer I can give.
I really honestly don't know. It's just that something about deep-sea diving just isn't right. And that's the best answer I can give.
(See how personal opinions really don't matter unless you're personally invested in something? Would anyone involved in deep-sea diving honestly care about what I have to say? Nope, because they have the right to do it as they please. One day, we'll make it the same for homosexual couples. And yes, this post is meant to be a little facetious, but that's the whole point of this debate--to draw attention to how silly the whole "let's ban it!" movement is)

Akonyl wrote:I'm not really sure why you're responding to moho in this way, nowhere was he saying it should be banned or that his belief should be enforced on anybody, he was just giving his opinion on the matter for the survey, which was the original point of the topic.
If this thread was a survey on deep-sea diving, your facetious post about it would be just as valid. Would it sway anybody into thinking deep-sea diving is bad? No, but it wasn't meant to in the first place.
Jd- wrote:that's the whole point of this debate--to draw attention to how silly the whole "let's ban it!" movement is
Jd- wrote:See how personal opinions really don't matter unless you're personally invested in something? Would anyone involved in deep-sea diving honestly care about what I have to say? Nope, because they have the right to do it as they please. One day, we'll make it the same for homosexual couples.


I have a background in a different Christian tradition and I question whether the assumption that "be fruitful and multiply" can currently be assumed good. Back in the day when Judaism and Christianity were minorities there were lots of deadly wars and disease, so the best way of maintaining and expanding one's religious base was to have kids which became part of the tradition. A lot has changed since then.Tawi wrote:Spoiler:

*shrugs* I don't think that homosexuals should feel bad for being who they are. I'm just saying that it's more than likely that at one point in their life, they've wondered, "Why can't I just be straight? Why does everyone pick on me for being the way I am? Why can't I change?" That's the one point I wanted to point out. It's natural and it applies to a lot of different things, whether it be hair color, skin color, ethnicity, wealth, etc. It's not easy for everyone to accept who they are right off the bat and not be ashamed of it. I know that I struggle with it.PhoenixTears wrote:@IHKF and Abs: I get that. I do. But the fact that anyone thinks homosexuals should be feeling bad for who they are because they don't conform to normal standards really bothers me. Why should they feel like they should change to fit someone's idea of normal? Why should they apologize for who they are?
The thing is, IU may not personally believe that, but they are people that genuinely think that homosexuals should be feeling bad and wanting to change because they're different.
That is absolutely wrong. Every single person should embrace who they are and feel free to live their lives in that way, provided they are not hurting someone else with their actions, whether they're gay, straight, bisexual, left-handed, red-haired, or whatever.
To be fair: I'm not offended at IU personally. It's the sentiment that bothers me, not her.

[19:40] IU IS JK ROWNLING?!?!?
[19:40] Just kidding
[19:40] IU IS JUST KIDDING ROWLING?!?!?

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Kleene Onigiri wrote:Anyway, first I wanna know, if we also talk about church marriage to be allowed for gay couples, or just state marriage, or marriage in general O_o
Like I said, it's not you I take issue with, just the line of thought.IdentityUnknown wrote:*shrugs* I don't think that homosexuals should feel bad for being who they are. I'm just saying that it's more than likely that at one point in their life, they've wondered, "Why can't I just be straight? Why does everyone pick on me for being the way I am? Why can't I change?" That's the one point I wanted to point out. It's natural and it applies to a lot of different things, whether it be hair color, skin color, ethnicity, wealth, etc. It's not easy for everyone to accept who they are right off the bat and not be ashamed of it. I know that I struggle with it.

The problem with this thinking (not with you, just this line of thought), is that for a lot of straight people, it tends to translate into "That person is attracted my people of my gender, therefore they must be attracted to me!"Kleene Onigiri wrote:I think there is a possible explanation as to why people don't like homosexuals.
As a girls, when I get stared or leered at by a man and I don't want anything from that man, I'll get an uneasy feeling and maybe even disgust. That man could be a real sweetheart and be nice, but at that moment I don't like it.
Maybe the males don't encounter that as much, but I bet a lot of females here know such a situation XD
Now, if a straight man or woman get checked out by a homosexual, they could also get that feeling, simply because they don't want anything from that person. And the probability that a straight person doesn't want anything sexual from the same gender is high XD
It doesn't really have to do something with the gender or homosexuality in itself. It's a simple "I don't want anything from that person and be checked out by that person".
But because people like to generalize everything, they project that "disgust" they maybe felt once on all homosexuals.
Doesn't mean that it's right to do that, but like said, it's hard to control feelings.
Hatred is normal, yes. But it's not natural. A baby, with no preconceptions of the world, does not automatically hate someone. He has to learn that ability. And I absolutely disagree that there's nothing people can do about it. People change all the time. Saying that they can't change their dislikes is flat out wrong.Kleene Onigiri wrote:Also, as much as people can't choose who they'll fall in love with, people can't do anything against disliking people too. Because both are feelings and not something rational. The important thing is to be able to still respect the other one and not to loose yourself in your own feelings. Disliking something or someone is as normal as falling in love. IMO, it's possible to dislike someone but still respect that person.
pofa wrote: I have never done a single thing wrong in mafia, never one lie or act of violence
He's saying you misread what "yes" and "no" meant. Yes means you're okay with it, no means you aren't. It's why everyone was confused by your statement that basically read "they" aren't okay, but "their sex" is.
Given that you're the one claiming it to be harmful, I think it'd be better for you to post sources that support your claim. Scientific sources. Not random jibber-jabber from holier than thou church-folk who follow Cardinals that bang young boys.
Given that you're the one claiming it to be harmful, I think it'd be better for you to post sources that support your claim.
"While the church will never accept the validity of gay marriage"
Wrong, there are a lot of churches that are accepting of it. A few weeks ago some members of this PFLAG group came to my school during a GSA meeting and talked about a few of the churches here starting to accept homosexuality, and the preacher(or w/e he's called) even stood up and apologized to everyone because he used to have those beliefs about homosexuality being wrong. They also mentioned someone who memorized every passage in the bible and could out argue anyone about why homosexuality is ok. Plag also had a few publications such as this you might want to read.
I would just like to point out that the mass media isn't necessarily anti-religion so much as they're anti-whatever-it's-cool-to-be-against-today.Tawi wrote:While it its true that the church has a pedophilia problem, it's been obviously blown out of proportion by mass media (who are very anti-religion).
I grew up in church, so I've heard this argument many times. In fact, it is as easy as flipping through the Bible. Apparently Christians (both Catholic and Protestant), pick and choose which ideals they want to follow (see Tanner's previous post, my previous post, Jd-'s previous post and Kor's previous post for references there), so pretty much sounds like they're just flipping around going "Yep, I think I'll follow this one." or "Nope, I don't like that one, therefore it's not applicable."There are not contradictions in the bible but there are what appear to be contradictions. It may be easy for atheists to come up with a list of things that confuse them but that's beside the point. One has to have knowledge of the bible, take the text as a whole and most importantly, deal with the translation by itself. Believe me, it isn't as easy as flipping through your printed version of the bible.
Catholicism has been around for quite some time and would not have survived to this day if they didn't change when they needed to.See unlike Protestants, we actually stand firm on our doctrines, we don't change.
pofa wrote: I have never done a single thing wrong in mafia, never one lie or act of violence


Tawi wrote:"bang young boys" isn't exactly a pleasant thing to hear, then again, there's no other way to say it right?
Just as religious clergy are painted for child molestation, a homosexual lifestyle is usually associated to something unhealthy. Why? Because there is truth behind it. If one would do a quick google search, he would find a lot of information backing my stance (that a homosexual lifestyle is unhealthy). The link I will post is a tad outdated, but it's comphrensive and well-researched, I believe it's a good read. http://www.familyresearchinst.org/2009/ ... -marriage/
See unlike Protestants, we actually stand firm on our doctrines, we don't change.
We are the worlds first and largest Christian body.
we go by Faith and Reason
We are the only religious body with countless authentic miracles that underwent scientific scrutiny.
We are not against evolution. We do not take the bible literally word-for-word.
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